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    Loneliness is not being alone. It’s the feeling that nobody cares

    Menno van der Land / December 12, 2020

    A journey into the world of loneliness – and how to deal with it In our modern societies having a ‘rich social life’ is widely seen and promoted as an essential part of…

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    Perfection is an illusion. Pursuing it is a recipe for unhappiness

    Menno van der Land / September 6, 2020

    There are many ways in which people can make life hard on themselves. One of the best ways to do so, is without a doubt the pursuit of perfection. Perfectionism is a recipe…

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    Individuality, conformity and our need for social acceptance

    Menno van der Land / June 6, 2020

    One of the most paradoxical aspects of human behavior, if you ask me, is the universally felt need for freedom to be yourself and the simultaneous tendency to conform to your environment. Between…

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    Hope is not enough

    Menno van der Land / May 24, 2020

    Where there is life is hope, they say. But where there is life, there is also hopelessness. And despair. And cynicism. And wishful thinking, that meaningless hope that will never come true. I…

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    Why we need to be angry sometimes (regardless what the Stoics say)

    Menno van der Land / May 7, 2020

    I don’t know about you, but I can get quite angry sometimes. It doesn’t happen often, but things like injustice, cheating and disrespectful behavior can really piss me off. It is a trait…

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    Do you want what you wish?

    Menno van der Land / April 30, 2020

    “You don’t have to learn to want,” said Greek philosopher Seneca. And indeed, we humans seem very good at wanting. We want all kinds of things. And there are things we don’t want.…

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    Forget being who you are. Life’s about becoming who you want to be

    Menno van der Land / April 19, 2020

    You may recognize this: To friends, family or colleagues you can’t refrain from stressing that you “want to be yourself”, and meanwhile you silently ask yourself, “Who am I actually?” If so, then…

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    5 misunderstandings about being introverted

    Menno van der Land / April 12, 2020

    If someone asks you whether you are an introvert or an extrovert, do you immediately know the answer? I myself do not identify with either; I always say that I am an ambivert,…

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    ‘Man’s search for meaning’ in 10 quotes

    Menno van der Land / November 21, 2019

    I just finished reading ‘Man’s search for meaning’ by Viktor Frankl. Here are my 10 favorite quotes from this highly recommended book: 1. Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue. A human being…

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    Are we like hamsters?

    Menno van der Land / March 17, 2019

    Many of us are working to improve their emotional well-being by addressing past experiences and traumas, either by themselves or guided by a therapist. Let me be clear that I think paying attention…

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Home base: Leiden, The Netherlands

Education: PhD in political science

Philosophy: existentialist, pragmatist & wannabe stoic

Personality type: INTJ-A, thinker & ambivert

Political orientation: liberal-minded democrat

Into: travel, philosophy, psychology, photography, politics, wine, good food & good conversation

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  • Loneliness is not being alone. It’s the feeling that nobody cares
  • Is autonomy a myth? (Spoiler: No it is not.)
  • Why you should always keep asking ‘why?’
  • Perfection is an illusion. Pursuing it is a recipe for unhappiness
  • Individuality, conformity and our need for social acceptance

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